Nov 12, 20216 min readWhat's the difference?I’m going to say two statements. “I have asthma” “I have depression” I want you to think about what your inner responses were to each of...
Jun 27, 20216 min readShould I Eat That?(Talk of eating disorders can be triggering. I have made sure to not include specific numbers and weights as this has little benefit to...
Mar 27, 20213 min readBut I Thought I Was Better...When I think about what to write about my experiences of a relapse, I want to hide away from it. Even just thinking of the word in my...
Dec 22, 20202 min readShrinkingToday, I was stopped in my tracks. I'd charged up an old IPad, scrolled through some pictures, and came across a shot of me in a bikini....
Nov 23, 20203 min readDog DaysI was always that woman, the one who picked only dog-friendly cafés to meet friends with, and would host birthday parties for her dog. My...
Nov 15, 20206 min read50 Days Self-Harm FreeNB- This post discusses self-harm which might be triggering for some people. I have included helpline numbers and resource links at the...
Nov 6, 20205 min readBut I'm Not Ill Enough...Where to even start with this statement. I am the QUEEN of saying it, much to my friends and care teams’ despair. This post is a bit...
Nov 3, 20203 min readLockdown Locks Out New MumsThey say it takes a village to raise a child, and I was sure that I was camped firmly in mine. " I don't need any 'mum friends'" I...
Oct 29, 20202 min readWhat Does Recovery Even Mean?I see so many posts on social media about mental health recovery, amazing before and afters, people being cured of their mental illnesses...
Oct 26, 20203 min readGood Mums have Scary ThoughtsI had worked in midwifery for ten years when I came to give birth, so was pretty sure that I knew what to expect from this new mum...
Oct 25, 20201 min readA bit about us...So a little bit about the two of us. We are friends and midwives, both who have lived experiences of mental illness. We first met though...